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About Lady English
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I was born in Detroit, Michigan and was raised there. I had my primary education in the city and
went to college to study nursing there as well. Although I live in a much smaller city now on the other side of
the state, I would call myself a city girl at heart. I've always needed the stimulation that a city offers
with it's varying cultural and social diversity. There are too many wonderful experiences in life to limit yourself
to thinking and doing the same old thing year in and year out. When you're out there in the world with your ears,
eyes, and mind open to all of the possibilities, good things that you can't even imagine cross your path all of the
time.
This is what happened with me and the world of BDSM.
I wasn't looking for it. I did hear about it and had read about it.
I was simply asked to go to a party as a favor to someone. At first, I was a little reluctant. I had heard of what
the people
at this party did. They all wore leather and fetish clothing, tied people up and tortured them. Alright, I though
t that was kind of
sick and these people must have deep emotional and mental problems. And yet, I was game, if only to use the occasion to
study the kinks and
bends of human nature.I am a very curious person. I also brought along a six foot, three inch, two hundred and forty pound male friend, just in case....
A funny thing happened. I discovered that all of the people at the party were nice, intelligent,
well educated folk. They actually seemed to be more stable and 'normal' than
so many other groups of people I had been around. I suppose this might have
been because they were so open and honest about who they were and what they
liked.
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They spanned a wide range of political and cultural orientations as
well. I struggled to find a common denominator, socially or culturally, and
could not. They were fun to be around and talk to. To my surprise, they were
not an assembly of freaks!
What really impressed me was what they were doing. It was raw emotion, but
yet safe and controlled. I could see that everyone there had a sincere agenda
to respect each other's boundaries and to allow each individual to express themselves
openly and without fear of ridicule. Not what you find in more socially refined
gatherings. It didn't take me long to open my own thinking up to possibilities
that maybe,this is okay. There is no need to get specific here, but it
went like this. At first, I stuck my little toe into the water to test it
for temperature, and then went in as far as my knees. By the next morning,
I had jumped into the water and was swimming around like a fish.
Now, I wasn't into dominating someone at this point. Actually, I felt a bit intimidated by all of the knowledge and
responsibility that a Dominant needed to shoulder,
so I started out as a submissive.
But it didn't take long for me to understand that I didn't have a submissive bone in my body! At a party, I was
approached
by a Mistress who requested that I dominate her submissive male in a scene. My first reaction was that I could
not do that because I was a sub. She was very blunt when she told
me that I was not submissive at all. She said that during the entire evening she had watched me mentally, emotionally,
and psychologically dominate
the man who was supposed to be my Master. I thought about that for a moment and realized that she was right! I realized that yes indeed,
I was the one calling all the shots in that relationship. With a little
encouragement, I took her up on her offer and absolutely fell in love with being on top and having power.
Since that time, there has been no turning back.
For thirteen years I have lived and worked at learning and refining the art of Female Domination. For me, this
is what I love and who I am.
~ Lady English
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